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32 minutes ago, alexsis.dimarzio@yahoo.com said:

R.i.p. Kurt Cobain.


25 years ago today since he passed. 

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7 hours ago, Onision said:

He would be like... 52 now right?


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yea there was this 1 doc i forget the name, that really focused on his early life w her n the doll obsession... idk i think she was the real luv of his life n not courtney XD

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51 minutes ago, ixchelle said:

yea there was this 1 doc i forget the name, that really focused on his early life w her n the doll obsession... idk i think she was the real luv of his life n not courtney XD

I’m not sure 🤷🏼‍♀️ 

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The real first kurt cobain cat GIFlove of his life was actually tracy if I'm not mystaken RIP kurt🤩

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