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Hi, so I'm having the issue so me and this dude (let's call him Cole)  we've been friends since 5th grade Cole is like a brother but he keeps trying to ask me out I keep saying no I'm not interested and he won't back down I told him no 5 different times he keeps getting more aggressive and dose the nice guy thing. I still want to be his friend but I don't feel comfortable what should I do?

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If he can’t respect your wishes to be friends when you've clearly expressed you’re not interested but still want to be friends, he may need to be cut off. 

Definitely shown you a lack of respect and boundaries. Unfortunately you can’t control his actions and if chooses to continue pestering you for a relationship, he probably gotta go. 

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Block his number, social media, etc. He's not worth the friendship at this point. He's being an asshole and that's not acceptable.

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Sorry to say but it's time to distant yourself. If he isn't willing to respect your decision. Then he isn't a friend to begin with. 

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@Geotikid Hey sorry that this is happening to you. I would say to set boundaries (healthy ones)

with him, tell him how you feel and that you are uncomfortable. Remind him that you guys are friends 

and that you want/would like to stay that way. See what he says/reacts to it, if he gets too much for 

you, you may want to go separate ways. It always sucks losing someone but if he is making you 

uncomfortable you/something needs to be done/said. Sorry it was so long just some friendly advice

from me/what I would do. Hope that helps/I was of help good luck. 

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49 minutes ago, alexsis.dimarzio@yahoo.com said:

@Geotikid Hey sorry that this is happening to you. I would say to set boundaries (healthy ones)

with him, tell him how you feel and that you are uncomfortable. Remind him that you guys are friends 

and that you want/would like to stay that way. See what he says/reacts to it, if he gets too much for 

you, you may want to go separate ways. It always sucks losing someone but if he is making you 

uncomfortable you/something needs to be done/said. Sorry it was so long just some friendly advice

from me/what I would do. Hope that helps/I was of help good luck. 

Thanks for the suggestion u were very helpful

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15 hours ago, AmazingDiana said:

Sorry to say but it's time to distant yourself. If he isn't willing to respect your decision. Then he isn't a friend to begin with. 

Thank u yeah i think i will 

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