I notice a lot of the times when I do date someone, it goes really well for awhile but suddenly they just disappear with nothing to say to me/no longer are interested in me.Idk why this happens but anytime I get close to someone relationship wise, they just ghost/ignore me which is very confusing because I don’t do that to them ever.
It’s a lot of stress emotionally and frankly very discouraging when you want to be close to someone but you can’t because you have a constant fear that something is gonna go wrong which is sad but when you have had it happen many times, you think it’s gonna happen again so you just wanna avoid that pain. It’s really consuming/devastating emotionally speaking when you really cared for someone but they didn’t really care that much for you. I feel like sometimes maybe it is me or something I did in the relationship and that often makes me very depressed because I take that very personally, The reason I say that is because I don’t like letting people down or causing any form of harm to anyone. Personally I’m just single for the moment because I just really have no desire to date right now nor do I think I’m ready emotionally.
just a little tangent I wrote concerning dating.
I consider myself an empath. It can be very overwhelming at times and has led to much anxiety, it’s a battle internally each day since it’s difficult to fix and cope with all the injustice and pain in the world. I believe we can channel our emotions to help others who are struggling with challenges as well as our own state of being. ❤️
Here is a good documentary about Empaths:
Im 21yr old and i've been for about 8 months in a mentally and sexually abusive relationship. He is 27 and we meet through a mutual friend.
We broke up several times (around 5) and got back together. But after him doing horrendous stuff to me i decide to leave him for good. Unforchenetly i had serious issues with my family and in a moment of weakness got back to him. But of course he treated me even worse and started spreading rumors that ive slept with a bunch of people and that i have an STD. He even almost hit me in front of people but a friend stopped him.
We no longer are together but im very emotionally hurt from all of this,
My question and the reason i shear this here is because i don't really know how i'll ever be with someone again after all of this.
Can you guys give me advice on how to handle things after something this traumatic happens.
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