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I don’t really miss him at all because although I thought I lived him I was just attached and after being out of the relationship I realised how toxic it was. Even though I kind of knew it was slightly I didn’t know how bad it was.

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I was dating a older guy (38 and I was 23) I was never attracted to him so he would rape me so  he could get laid and told everyone what I liked in bed, he used me often....I cleaned and made dinner every day he wanted a housewife so I broke up with him a year ago and he is still harassing me...I hate him so much

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My most recent ex was hot but she was a thot. I can't stand for women flirting with other girls and posting provocative pictures. I didn't argue, there's no need for that, I just left. If you don't respect me enough to listen when I say I am uncomfortable with something then the relationship is dead.

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I have mixed feelings. Some are scum, and some are just not the right people for me and mine. 

 

I only like really HATE two of them. One lied to me and strung me along for like 2 years and the other one is a literal maniac who called my house and said he would r*p* my sister and I, and also murder my “n-slur piece of S●●●” brother who was like f●●●in 10 at the time, tops.  Really can’t f●●●en stand that guy. 

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Ex #1: Nothing but pure hatred at what he's done to me
Ex #2: We're still buddies and talk often
Ex #3: Nothing, tbh. We just drifted apart and don't talk
Ex #4: Again, nothing as we don't talk to each other now.

My relationships haven't been awful, generally, so *shrugs*

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I really try to be  friends with my ex's when it's possible, even if that means they and i don't talk for a while first, and that while could be months or even years later . My first boyfriend ever for me was when I was 13, Im now 36 and we've been friends now for a little over 20 years, both moved way on, have familes of our own and stuff like that, but we stay in touch, as he has become somewhat of a brother to me.

Usually Girl FRIEND/Boy FRIEND ends when the FRIEND (Or self) does one or many things that are un FRIENDly and feelings get hurt and stuff ends including that initial friendship with that person, but if it's a mutual kind of break up, then usually we'd be friends after. 

I like in a fairly small and isolated town, so for me it's inevitable that I'll see an ex in public, so I try to play it cool when I can, if not, then I will go way out of my way to dodge and avoid that ex. 

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We’re on good terms and we will catch up once in a while. No sense in holding onto anger and hatred for anyone. 

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